We are attending MAL for the first time and looking for advice on a couple of things I'm not getting from the site's FAQs: 1. Wardrobe: a. Do most guys change for each event? b. what's acceptable and what's not in the venues? c. Can you wear leather outside the venues and not be harrassed? 2. Events: a. which are the not-t0-miss? (we aren't into the drug scene, but very adventurous otherwise) b. can you decide at the door or do you have to make advance purchase for everything? Thanks!!!