Directory of BDSM Masters or Doms

Discussion in 'Fetish Forum' started by Just Chuck, Apr 16, 2017.

  1. Just Chuck

    Just Chuck Apprentice

    Can you point me to a good directory where male BDSM Masters or Doms advertise? RM allows you to select Bondage or S&M in preferences but that's not very much info to go on and it's an area where you don't want to accidentally dive into the deep end of the pool.
     
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  2. You have to search for the terms you want i.e. Master/Sir/Dom/Playroom/Dungeon/Sling/Etc.
     
  3. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    There are websites that do offer lists odf doms for BDSM. The catch is that they almost exclusively offer info about the dominatrix of the species and I doubt that would be of interest to the OP. As an example you will find many misteresses, but relatively few masters... So such directories do exist, but it is not exactly useful for our purposes here.

    http://www.bottommarks.com/subdom/spanking-bdsm-directory-06.htm

    Also of interest could be the following site:

    http://www.dungeonnet.com/

    Click on people and then masters for some interesting info. Many are based in Europe and but others such as Master Taino (by whom I was flogged in a demo a couple of years ago) are based in the USA. Still, a lot of the info is not only old but not of the escort variety.
     

  4. Yeah -- What he said!
     
  5. I'd run the words bdsm, fetish, kink or your specific kink in the search field. I haven't had much luck with rentmen but when RB was up there were a couple pro doms that would advertise there but won't advertise on RM for some reason. There are a couple pro doms in SF that are on RM but I haven't met either of them. If you go to Seattle I see Jessie Sparkles advertises on RM sometimes. I met him back in the days of RB and he's a nice looking guy with access to a great dungeon, when I met him his rates were cheap but I see he's increased his rates on his website.

    If you ever go to Toronto or Chicago I can give you the sites of a dom in those cities, my favorite guy to play with is a pro dom in Chicago.

    Speaking of Pro doms if anyone knows if Erc aka Leff from Santa Monica/LA is still escorting please private me. I loved playing with him, hot guy and really young but great dom with an awesome dungeon in his apartment and reasonable rates and also a cute escort, one of the best hung guys I've been with
     
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  6. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    Guys who have a dedicated dungeon are really tough to find. Reminds me of the now loooong retired Reece Rothmeier in NYC, who had not only a dungeon, but a dungeon that was stocked with virtually the entire Mr. S inventory! The problem with believing what guys post in their ads is that those who advertise BDSM and a dungeon actually are referencing their bedroom and the fact that they have a slap paddle stashed in their night table drawer... sad but often true.
     
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  7. No Erik had a Full Dungeon -- It was his entire apt. Cross/Bondage table/cages/spanking bench/fucking bench/electro/medical/leather/uniforms/crops/paddles/belts/hoods/gags/etc

    And he is a big guy over 6ft 2 === Broad/Commanding
     
  8. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    Pay attention! I never said Erik did not have a full dungeon. By only referencing the portion of the post that mentioned Erik I was comparing him to Reece in a positive manner. Reece, who likewise had a dedicated dungeon space and virtually all the items you mention as well. I then went on to lament the fact (and in tongue in cheek manner) that most of the guys who do advertise a dungeon have neither a dungeon nor the requisite equipment!

    50 lashes with wet noodle... next time it will be with a bull-hide flogger! :eek: ;) Of course you might actually enjoy that even more... the bull flogger that is! :)
     
  9. I was not disparaging Reese or you - Just clarifying that like Reese --- Erik is the real deal. I just wish I knew where he disappeared to -- and for him would even go visit a square state!
     
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  10. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    I knew that there was no disparaging involved. You just misinterpreted what I posted and in retrospect that was because I could have been more precise in how I worded things. Either way no big deal.

    Unfortunately the other thing that Erik and Reese have in common (aside from both being the elusive real deal) is that they seem to have retired or disappeared from the scene. Of course Reece had a plan, and then settled into the "real" world.

    As far as my comment about guys advertising a dungeon and equipment and only having a slap paddle in the drawer of their bedroom night table. That's a true predicament that I found myself in and since then have never left home sans toys! Lesson learned! However, the guy did have the bedroom decorated in a manner that would make Louis Vuitton proud! :rolleyes:
     
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  11. Erik had an amazing dungeon, especially for someone his age (I think he was only 24 or 25 at the time) living in the LA area. I miss him and his dungeon:)

    He was a big guy (he was tall and had a swimmer build, not big like in fat or super muscular) in more ways than one:) I think he was the best hung escort I've ever been with. And he was a very good looking guy which also really helped make the experience enjoyable:)

    A lot of guys that I've encountered with dungeons have rental dungeons and want an extra fee to cover the rental (which is understandable seeing they have to pay the dungeon owner).
     
  12. I'll take his 50 lashes if he doesn't want them LOL
     
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  13. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    Hopefully not with the wet noodle, but with the bull flogger that's below in my signature! ;) Lot's of thud, though if you want something with more sting I can supply that as well. :)
     
  14. Of course, it's not real punishment unless it Hurts:)
     
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  15. talktomeprodigy

    talktomeprodigy Apprentice

    Damn--Reece Rothmeier: that was like at least 10 years ago, right? He had that non-descript door in his apartment that opened up into the most amazing locker-room motif dungeon. Is that the right guy? One of the hottest fetish scenes ever!
     
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  16. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    He retired in about June of 2004 if I recall. His apartment was a fifth floor walk-up in NYC with a room that indeed had a locker so you could put your stuff in it. It had the most amazing lighting and mirrors so he would blindfold you, tie you up, and work you over. When he felt that the moment was right he would remove the blindfold and you would be able to view your punishment in the well placed sliding mirrors that he had perfectly positioned . An awesome experience. The room had sound proofing as well so the neighbors would hopefully be oblivious to what was happening, I saw him on a regular basis for several years. He was definitely the gold standard. And yes, that room was stocked with every torture device and restraint known to man.... and he was skilled at using every one.

    He was also one of the most attractive escorts that I ever hired. He had a firm jaw and sported a scruff beard. There was something about him that would make heads turn when he entered a room. He had a muscular body that while not of the bodybuilder variety was built by hard work that exuded masculinity. That made him even more desirable. Plus, he was one of the nicest guys imaginable so you had no trouble submitting to and having total trust in him. As I said the "gold standard"!

    He was the first escort that I ever hired as I felt that I needed to experience BDSM on a professional level. I wrote three reviews on his behalf over the time that I saw him.
     
  17. uwsman2

    uwsman2 Count

    I had two sessions with Reece shortly before he retired. He was great. But I would have liked to have a more vanilla sex experience with him, but he said he didn't do that with clients, just BDSM stuff.