Escorts asking for Personal Information and Pics?

Discussion in 'Ask An Escort' started by Reluctant Daddy, Sep 5, 2016.

  1. V-Vhitner

    V-Vhitner Master

    I get asked for stats and pics pretty frequently...
    I think some escorts just want to be sure that I'm someone they'll be able to "deliver" for.

    And given how many pics are floating around - especially on Grindr - I figure it's not such a big deal anymore.

    BUT, I keep face and body/dick pics totally separate...

    Am I nuts?
     
  2. Keith30309

    Keith30309 Count

    If you're not opposed on principle or concerned about an altered experience based on your physical appearance, then imagine the worst possible outcome.
    Perhaps something where your photo is posted by someone who is, for no rational reason, very angry with you. You appear on his Facebook as a meth-addled poodle-molester and passed around on Twitter. Yes, anyone could have randomly grabbed your picture from an online Rotary Club newsletter, but that seems rather unlikely. :)


    Related story:
    Earlier this week I was visiting a new gentleman on an incall and, as is the norm, he gave me his address a short time before our meeting. He lived in a gated community and informed me I would need to present my driver's license which the guard would scan. 'Scan'. As in 'retain an electronic image'.

    He was mystified by my conniption-fit and flat refusal and insisted that nothing possibly could go wrong. I'm really surprised at the number of people unconcerned with dispersal of their private info.
    (We worked it out by his contacting the guard in advance.)
     
  3. azdr0710

    azdr0710 "Old Timer"

    were you able to get in without presenting a driver's license or any documentation?....
     
  4. Keith30309

    Keith30309 Count

    Yes. He sent them an email with another name and then I chatted with the guard; she didn't give me any trouble.

    The amazing thing is that they would presume to ask for that AND that people would give it to them.
    I refuse to give my doctor's office some things.
    Businesses ask for all sorts of information that they don't need to provide service and is none of their business.
     
  5. On the flip side, I have a weekend scheduled with someone. The hotel I booked seems to require some sort of ID for all guests. I need to confirm that with the hotel, but I don't know if this will be a problem with him. I'll discuss this with him once I have a chance to check details with the hotel.

    Have any other escorts encountered something like this, and was it an issue for you?
     
    Last edited: Oct 22, 2016
  6. jjperry

    jjperry Apprentice

    Hi, I’m new to the forum.

    If I was the client and an escort was asking me to hand over these details, then I would suspect, given his age, that he is new to escorting and is perhaps a little insecure. However, that neither his photos of ID are verified would give me cause for concern that he could use this information against the client. I guess it depends on how you would interpret his request, but I’d say that he’s young, new, and hasn’t yet figured out how to deal with potential clients.
     
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  7. Tom Isern

    Tom Isern Baron

    but maybe a fake name?
     
  8. These were initially my thoughts, but after his ad disappeared and he stopped responding to texts I'm glad on not providing either. Seemed a little too sketchy to me.
     
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  9. jjperry

    jjperry Apprentice

    Agreed.
     
  10. TopTierTop

    TopTierTop Knight

    While it is not necessarily the first thing I ask for, I would never book an appointment with a potential client who is not willing to share their stats and send some sort of face pic. I understand that some guys are not comfortable with that so I do offer the option of meeting in person over coffee or something.

    A client, of course, has the option to find an escort who will accept any client without any conditions, but to say that an escort should have no say in who his client is sounds demeaning. Why should it be the only occupation that does not get to decide which clients are a good match for them? Mutual respect should be a part of any encounter.
     
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  11. TopTierTop

    TopTierTop Knight

    While it is not necessarily the first thing I ask for, I would never book an appointment with a potential client who is not willing to share their stats and send some sort of face pic. I understand that some guys are not comfortable with that so I do offer the option of meeting in person over coffee or something.

    A client, of course, has the option to find an escort who will accept any client without any conditions, but to say that an escort should have no say in who his client is sounds demeaning. Why should it be the only occupation that does not get to decide which clients are a good match for them? Mutual respect should be a part of any encounter.
     
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  12. BaronArtz

    BaronArtz Count

    Very well said. I totally agree with what you said about deciding which clients could be a good match to the escort. This board is mostly populated by clients; it is refreshing to hear the escort's perspective.
     
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  13. Travis69

    Travis69 Viscount

    Read your ad. Unfortunately I am too old.
     
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  14. Dominiking

    Dominiking Viscount

    Only thing I ask for is a cell number. As for a name, you can call yourself anything but at the end of the night your going to be my be called my cocksucker or my lil bitch or daddy whichever you like :p

    I remember when I first started escorting, I would not ask for nothing, no number, no face pics, I would literally meet some random guys on a corner :eek::(:p but now that I know better I have their number bc having just an email always makes someone to flake lol.

    I also asked for age, because the OLDER the BETTER and hotter. OMG I love my 40, 50,60,70 and 80+ year old clients.:)
    I don't know I've always been naturally attracted to wayyy older guys since I was a teen :eek::oops::)
     
  15. MiamiLooker

    MiamiLooker Count

    The ad says a lot about the escort, don't you think?
     
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  16. jimboivyo

    jimboivyo Count

    yup

    funny how some play the jumping through hoops card without having the reviews to back it up
     
  17. MikeBiDude

    MikeBiDude Viscount

    Well I commented elsewhere that @TopTierTop has the right to advertise as he wishes. Everyone worth it gets a review eventually (most likely) and he will get clients with his ad/looks.
    Lots and lots of "not reviewed" gents out there making a good living at the rates they ask...
     
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  18. TopTierTop

    TopTierTop Knight

    Check my reviews on rentmen. They speak for themselves. Nobody has to jump through hoops. Just provide basic information.
     
  19. TopTierTop

    TopTierTop Knight

    I am new to this forum but not to this business. Is some trolling to be expected in here?
     
  20. TopTierTop

    TopTierTop Knight

    Check my reviews on rentmen. They speak for themselves. Nobody has to jump through hoops. Just provide basic information. Why do some guys insist on taking all the joy out of something they should be just good fun. I suppose some trolling is to be expected on any online forum.