Escorts asking for Personal Information and Pics?

Discussion in 'Ask An Escort' started by Reluctant Daddy, Sep 5, 2016.

  1. TopTierTop

    TopTierTop Knight

    Seems like forever since I was posting in this thread. I did have a new take on it though. My rates are for time spent only, so I would not reject a client because of age or because he will not provide stats and either a pic or meeting in advance. I just would not commit to any sexual activity as part of the appointment. Fortunately, this is really all theoretical, because the cases where a potential client thinks I should commit to some kind of sexual encounter with no idea what he looks like is extremely rare. I can't even think of the last time someone said no when I asked and at least 90% unhesitatingly send me a pic once they feel comfortable with me. A potential client refusing is rare enough that when it happens, I am not losing anything by simply saying that I don't work that way and booking another client instead.
     
  2. mike carey

    mike carey Marquess

    Rico, I may have misread the room, but I had the impression that most of us had no problem with your MO, some may have been miffed that they are too old, but resigned to knowing where they stand. You may not have been here for a while but you didn't need to. Any newcomers can read what you have already posted, and although they may want to engage you in yet another conversation, that wouldn't change the outcome. I can't think of any new questions they could raise.
    (@TopTierTop)
     
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  3. TopTierTop

    TopTierTop Knight

    True. Just as it is rare that any of my potential clients has a problem with my MO, it is rare that anyone on here does either. The only reason I shared a new thought on the subject is because someone new just commented on it. It still surprises me that anyone at all would take offense to the way I do things, but it hasn't had a negative impact on my business, so, as I said, it's all just theoretical.
     
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  4. gentlewick

    gentlewick Novice

    I think it's the same concept of "microaggressions", e.g. someone advertising they don't accept people of a certain race. Members of that race will see it and move on but it still stings. That being said there are a lot of other posts in this thread that are interesting and those are the ones I was responding to primarily.
     
  5. cany10011

    cany10011 Baron

    In my initial email. I always try to give a visual description of what I look like, followed by what I'm looking for activity wise and my potential availability for an appointment. If the escort requests a photo, I am happy to provide but usually the visual description suffices.
     
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  6. Tygerscent

    Tygerscent Viscount

    Sounds sketchy~ Agreed: run away fast and don't look back~
    If he has an age or appearance prerequisite he needs to state that in his ad profile instead of shaming and discriminating against people thru correspondences~
    The idea of discriminating against Clients who hire someone according the their age, apprearance, race, and the other human/civil rights considerations, etc is unprofessional and illegal in any profession~
    This one should be no acception~
    Tyger~
    tygerkink@yahoo.com
    971.400.2633
     
  7. Tygerscent

    Tygerscent Viscount

    What kind of car you drive~? Ugh~ How disheartening to hear that someone would actually care and make that a condition of hire~
    I would have been tempted to return the question and insist they answer by telling you what kind of car they drive, what neighborhood they live in, do they own or rent their home and what their educational background is before you are willing to hire them~
    That's just me being a smart ass~
    Why... Were they looking to buy it~?
    Just saying...
    Tyger~
     
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  8. gentlewick

    gentlewick Novice

    I had an escort ask recently for a photo "to associate with my number for his phone", and I said I don't send out my picture but if we met more than the one time I'd be OK with it. He was OK with that. I'm also perfectly willing to walk away if someone insists on it.
     
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