Is this real, seems too brutal

Discussion in 'Fetish Forum' started by Walker1, Nov 6, 2016.

  1. Walker1

    Walker1 Knight

  2. honcho

    honcho Protector of the Realm

    Could very well be real; there are a few guys who really do crave that kind of pain, but don't do it every week or even every month of the year. I attended a motor cycle run called "Inferno" about 20 years ago and witnessed a consentual scene just about like that.
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  3. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    It's real! Some guys crave such a badge of honor. Personally I have never gone as far when playing the sub or Dom so as to cause bleeding. Though once I was beaten up quite badly because I foolishly felt that I had to prove something to myself. However, while I have been bruised and have caused bruising (in consentual situations) it is not something that I would do now or would want done to me now. Flogging and whipping can be done in a responsible way where the desired pain can be produced and bruising can be avoided or at least bruising that disappears in a day or so. The ideal goal in my book is some redness and red marks and marks that won't result in hematoma, black and blue bruising, etc., not to mention bleeding.

    Still, like @honcho I have seen it done and just over the summer where a guy really was beaten up and battered as in the video. It actually troubled me, but as in my case so many years ago it seemed that the guy needed to prove something to himself as it definitely was consentual. Hopefully it's not something that one does on a daily basis!

    Also, from what I could see it seemed that a short single tail whip was used in the video. Single tail whips are the most lethal. I have only been whipped with a single tail by someone in whom I have had the utmost confidence that they would act responsibly. I don't own a single tail, but have experimented with them.
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  5. Keith30309

    Keith30309 Earl

    Round trip or one way?

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  6. I attended Body Electric's bondage seminar (Power, Surrender, and Intimacy) years ago. One of the guys had a request that any flogging be done to NOT leave any marks, since he was attending this on the down-low. The instructor seemed pretty annoyed at the request; as it ended up, I was his flogging partner and I did my best to not leave marks.
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  7. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    In S&M it is the sub who sets the level of intensity. Any instructor who would not honor such a request is off the reservation! It sounds as if the instructor is one of those guys who gets off by inflicting pain as opposed to someone who is turned on by pleasing his partner. Plus, one person's badge of honor is another's delemma where he would have a lot of ''splaining " to do! Plus, it's possible not to leave marks. I have volunteered for demos outdoors at Folsom East and walked away with out any marks.
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  8. Stephan

    Stephan Journeyman

    The bruises were too extreme, no I din't enjoy it.
  9. Walker1

    Walker1 Knight

  10. LivingnLA

    LivingnLA Baron

    Yes, such activity is very real. Some submissives need substantial pain during their Discipline sessions. That's why a well trained Dominant is so important. It's very easy to reach a point where permanent damage occurs.
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  11. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    At the conclusion there is a disclaimer regarding what you DID NOT SEE... that is the care and mutual respect taken to make things safe and totally concentual. It is obvious that the sub was given plenty of time to rest and recover during the scene. This is evidenced by the many fadeouts that occurred. Also, a significant time must have elapsed between the opening scene and the final scene as some minor red marks that were evident earlier on were totally gone at the conclusion of the scene. It was hard to determine what type of a device the Dom was using early on, but by the final moments he had definitely switched to a more lethal single tail.

    Also it was obvious that the Dom knew exactly how far to go with each of his accoutrements as during one segment he seemed to be going a bit easier and lighter with his blows, but the sub's reaction indicated an increase in intensity. That indicated that the Dom was using a more lethal weapon and was using it responsibly so as not to cross the line. Of course from my point of view the line was eventually crossed by the end of the scene as the busing was a bit overly intense. However, the line was never really crossed as everything was consensual and the sub actually got what he wanted, craved, and needed to be totally satisfied. Seeing the complete video helped put things into the proper perspective. Thanks to @Walker1 for posting!

    HOT AS ALL HELL and now to quote @honcho , "Now I need to go hurt myself"! ;)
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  12. LivingnLA

    LivingnLA Baron

    Yes, you can see the Dominant's control. I had one sub who needed over-the-knee bare butt spankings to stay balanced and productive in college. It wasn't sexual. It was pure Discipline. I was responsible for holding him Accountable. We only went to black and blue bruising once. That was the most intense session of my BDSM exploration in my twenties.
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  13. Funguy

    Funguy Earl

    I need to go eat some ice cream!
  14. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    After all that turkey you ate yesterday... Not to mention what you might be feasting on tomorrow!!! ;)
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  15. Truereview

    Truereview Peer

    I'm even too wimpy to open up the link! :(
    I'll join @funguy for ice cream.
    I might even smear it all over him
    and whip him with my cannoli.
    Ice cream fetish anyone?
  16. Funguy

    Funguy Earl


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  17. Funguy

    Funguy Earl

    What do you mean, "might"?
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  18. LivingnLA

    LivingnLA Baron

    Remember, porn is fantasy. As the disclaimer makes clear, the "nuts n bolts" of a true Discipline scene are critical, but "boring" from a fantasy perspective.

    "Finally, no matter what punishments you have used, do not forget aftercare. A punishment session can be exhausting for the submissive, both physically and emotionally. Thus the same procedures for post-scene aftercare apply for mental punishment sessions as well."
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  19. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    I'm not sure why but reading that reminded me of some S&M jokes...

    I have an S&M kit. It's brand spanking new.

    Some advice for the S&M Dom aka a Top tip: A gag stops the sub from using the safe word.

    If a masochist goes to hell, he actually goes to heaven???

    How do you really punish a masochist... obviously by not punishing him.

    We're starting our bondage world tour by being bound for London...

    However, getting serious again you are indeed correct in emphasizing the after care aspect of S&M. It's the final step in nurturing the sub back to reality.
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  20. Rudynate

    Rudynate Earl

    I used to go to occasional BDSM parties. Scenes like that weren't uncommon.
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