Is this real, seems too brutal

Discussion in 'Fetish Forum' started by Walker1, Nov 6, 2016.

  1. handiacefailure

    handiacefailure Journeyman

    I could handle an ass paddling/strapping that intense with no problem but know I'm in the minority. I saw a guy get caned once at a party at IML in Chicago and the top refused to go on even though the sub wanted him to because his butt was starting to bleed. I've never been to Inferno or the CHC but am told some really intense stuff goes on there.
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  2. escortrod

    escortrod Lord

    I've had clients who I have caned until they started to bleed, who wanted to continue. Unfortunately that's where I draw the line, in case of legal liability for any damage that may be caused. It's something I'd suggest any escorts who are into BDSM give due consideration.
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  3. LivingnLA

    LivingnLA Lord

    Caning is tricky as it is, to continue after bleeding begins to introduce other issues. Only the most experienced Dominants should go there. Lady Hugs wrote a good caning overview that's worth reading if you're into caning a sub or slave. Personally, were I to wish to make a caning session even more painful, I would do some "figging," from English-style canning, during the session to intensify the pain. Lady Hugs' overview discusses it near the end.

    Also, I refer you to Peter Masters' very informative and useful BDSM site for more info.,_safety,_and_risks
    Last edited: Jan 9, 2017
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  4. uwsman2

    uwsman2 Count

    I keep coming back to this brutal scene... catnip for a masochist like me!
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  5. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    As do I! Obviously! ;)
  6. Dominiking

    Dominiking Viscount

    I'm too much of a romantic. I would rather make out, cuddle, rub on each other, call me vanilla but hey who doesn't love just the regular old sucking cock and getting fucked. There is however this regular I've been seeing for a while and lately he's been doing stuff such as spanking my ass, putting 3 fingers in my hole and some clamps on my nipples. So don't laugh this was my first time with a clamp on my nipple, it was okay at first but after 2-3 minutes i had to take it off. Then after the session I flipped the roles and put the clamp on him ...he couldn't take it for more than a few seconds lol and I spanked him a little too, he couldn't take it longer than I could haha. I guess some people have tolerance more than others for pain.
  7. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    Sounds as though the two of you need some nipple conditioning!!!! I was there once... Check the following thread to help get your nips acclimated to clamps and other nip play. As with everything else there is a right and wrong way! For beginners one needs to condition and get the nips prepared for the clamps... also one should begin with adjustable clamps... Of course when the clamps are removed that is when they often hurt the most. So a guy tries nip clamps for the first time and they hurt like hell. He then yells, "Get these f^<king things off my nips!" They are removed quickly and in an improper manner. That induces even more pain! That discourages the newbie even more from progressing to the next level. That is unfortunately how most guys first experience nip play and it is often ther last experience as well. That is a shame as they are missing out on what can potentially be a whole new erotic vista for them!

    Bottom line: one needs to go slowly at first. Plus practice makes perfect, and if nips are your thing you just might be on your way to becoming a serious nipple pig! :)
  8. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    Also, since I have been asked... and especially since it fits in with the theme of this thread... my current avatar (at least as seen on 02/05/2017) is real!