Is this real, seems too brutal

Discussion in 'Fetish Forum' started by Walker1, Nov 6, 2016.

  1. I could handle an ass paddling/strapping that intense with no problem but know I'm in the minority. I saw a guy get caned once at a party at IML in Chicago and the top refused to go on even though the sub wanted him to because his butt was starting to bleed. I've never been to Inferno or the CHC but am told some really intense stuff goes on there.
     
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  2. escortrod

    escortrod Lord

    I've had clients who I have caned until they started to bleed, who wanted to continue. Unfortunately that's where I draw the line, in case of legal liability for any damage that may be caused. It's something I'd suggest any escorts who are into BDSM give due consideration.
     
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  3. LivingnLA

    LivingnLA Baron

    Caning is tricky as it is, to continue after bleeding begins to introduce other issues. Only the most experienced Dominants should go there. Lady Hugs wrote a good caning overview that's worth reading if you're into caning a sub or slave. Personally, were I to wish to make a caning session even more painful, I would do some "figging," from English-style canning, during the session to intensify the pain. Lady Hugs' overview discusses it near the end.

    Also, I refer you to Peter Masters' very informative and useful BDSM site for more info.

    https://www.peter-masters.com/wiki/index.php/BDSM_health,_safety,_and_risks
     
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  4. uwsman2

    uwsman2 Count

    I keep coming back to this brutal scene... catnip for a masochist like me!
     
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  5. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    As do I! Obviously! ;)
     
  6. Dominiking

    Dominiking Viscount

    I'm too much of a romantic. I would rather make out, cuddle, rub on each other, call me vanilla but hey who doesn't love just the regular old sucking cock and getting fucked. There is however this regular I've been seeing for a while and lately he's been doing stuff such as spanking my ass, putting 3 fingers in my hole and some clamps on my nipples. So don't laugh this was my first time with a clamp on my nipple, it was okay at first but after 2-3 minutes i had to take it off. Then after the session I flipped the roles and put the clamp on him ...he couldn't take it for more than a few seconds lol and I spanked him a little too, he couldn't take it longer than I could haha. I guess some people have tolerance more than others for pain.
     
  7. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    Sounds as though the two of you need some nipple conditioning!!!! I was there once... Check the following thread to help get your nips acclimated to clamps and other nip play. As with everything else there is a right and wrong way! For beginners one needs to condition and get the nips prepared for the clamps... also one should begin with adjustable clamps... Of course when the clamps are removed that is when they often hurt the most. So a guy tries nip clamps for the first time and they hurt like hell. He then yells, "Get these f^<king things off my nips!" They are removed quickly and in an improper manner. That induces even more pain! That discourages the newbie even more from progressing to the next level. That is unfortunately how most guys first experience nip play and it is often ther last experience as well. That is a shame as they are missing out on what can potentially be a whole new erotic vista for them!

    https://message-forum.net/threads/serious-nipple-play.100121/

    Bottom line: one needs to go slowly at first. Plus practice makes perfect, and if nips are your thing you just might be on your way to becoming a serious nipple pig! :)
     
  8. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    Also, since I have been asked... and especially since it fits in with the theme of this thread... my current avatar (at least as seen on 02/05/2017) is real!
     
  9. uwsman2

    uwsman2 Count

    Finding a skillful dom with a flogger and a soundproof place to use it... Recommendations in NYC?
     
  10. Mount N Do

    Mount N Do Lord

    Damn I'm so green and naive to all this. Did I say unworthy? I'm seeing a younger escort that was talking to me about "pig play". Yep, I had no idea what he was talking about.
    /showed myself out
     
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  11. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    Another lucky boy who has been put through the paces...

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  12. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    For those who don't get it... for some BDSM is the most intense way of making love...

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  13. BaronArtz

    BaronArtz Count

    It was interesting and stimulating to watch this. I was annoyed though that the sub kept his jeans on. It would have been even hotter if he was stark naked and his buns got the same 'treatment' ...

    Is that part of this 'genre'? I know I have asked the same question before.
     
  14. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    Well as noted above at one time it was something that was often done but rarer today. It no doubt was part of the prearranged scenario. Perhaps that was the sub's wish. Or even the Dom might like doing it that way! Or for simply not wanting to show nudity in the demo. No matter! Definitely everyone involved was on the same page.
     
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  15. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    These backyard boys been having some fun! Note the whip that the Dom (who is hot as all hell!) is using... it is quite lethal and given that fact he seems to have used it responsibly with reactively light strokes as the marks on the sub's chest are within the realm of sanity. Also there is less room for error when flogging the chest as opposed to the back . It is best to avoid (or at least go lightly) on the softer areas such as the abs and sides that might bruise much more easily.... not to mention avoiding the face! A few strokes here seem to have gotten the guy's sides and pits, but the sub may have moved or the Dom's aim was a bit off. It's always fun to aim directly for the guys nips... even better have him wear nip clamps prior to the action so that they are sore as hell. (Insert evil grin here.)

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    Note this was posted for the benefit of @BaronArtz and any others who prefer to see the sub totally naked and with a frontal view. What is interesting is that the Dom is not naked. That's how some like to play it as do I. Some subs want to go for the reward before they have paid their dues. The nasty trick is to wear Levi's 501 button down jeans. They always reach for the zipper... and are frustrated when there is none. At that point they hear that they will have to do something really good to get to a prize like that. While it looks as though this sub has paid his dues, I would guess that there might be more to come as the Dom does not look totally satisfied...
     
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  16. BaronArtz

    BaronArtz Count

    Thank you for posting this, 'Whipped Guy'. Exciting when the sub is stark naked - frontal or back. Interesting to see that the sub's genital area doesn't seem damaged. I would have liked to see some lashes on his pendulous low hanging sack ...
     
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  17. whipped guy

    whipped guy Regent

    LOL!!! Well I jokingly told a very highly regarded and now long retired escort that I wanted to flog his "private parts". I wish I had a camera because the expression on his face was priceless as he said, "Uh, but that's my bread and butter!" (Interestingly if he were in another profession he probably would have given it a shot!) Needless to say it is something that can be done as one of the options under the CBT umbrella. Of course there are indeed small floggers often made of a very soft suede material which are small enough such that not much force can be generated. Of course there are some very lethal ones as well... :eek: